Friday, November 30, 2007

ATTITUDE & ALLURE~~~


Attitude is everything when we attempt to keep our love life alive. We have to have an attitude of confidence, strength, will, and, sensuality. Confidence makes people much more attractive, plus it gives them an added allure. As with anything, moderation prevails...

Attitude also is so important when we 'dress up' to keep our object of affection mesmerized. We cannot just put on something sexy and expect it to do the work for us, no, it takes an attitude of wearing it. The clothes don't make the person, the person makes the clothes. This is why it is so important to take the time to pick styles which enhance and 'dress' your body type and your own personality... There are some people who look good in many things, but, even they do not look good in everything; the rest of us have to pick and choose. It is better to have a few pieces that will knock your lover out, then a bunch which do not flatter just so....

There are flattering pieces for every body, for every age, for every personality. There are some really sexy older people around these days, and, part of their allure is that they know how to 'dress' their body type; they know what looks good on them, and, they wear it well. The same is true for fuller figures; there are lots of gorgeous plus size women and men these days who know how to 'dress' what they have, and, how to use it...

Men who are shopping for lingerie for their woman are inclined to pick out pieces which they are attracted to, instead of clearly deciding if said woman would look good in that particular piece, and, that can lead to feelings of discomfort for the woman, as, she will feel that she should wear it, just to make him happy, but, if it does not fit her body type, she is not going to feel sexy in it, and, her confidence level will not be such that she can make it work. It is a no-win situation...

Therefore gentlemen, take time to really look at your woman. It need not be a complicated ordeal, it just needs to be a considerate and conscious one... The whole picture. Her body, her hair, her face, her skin tone, her personality, and, her overall esteem level. The key here is to 'dress' her body in a way which will make her more beautiful; in a way which will enhance her entirely. It should be that her flaws are 'dressed' that she radiate confidence and sensuality....

Take time to take into consideration her weight, what she considers her flaws, her age, her physical attributes and strengths, her coloring, and, her personality. If she is a quiet, timid woman, do not bring home a g-string and corset; instead, bring home something which matches her nature, such as a lovely and sheer gown. If you play your cards right, that quiet, timid lady might eventually become a quiet riot... So, think about who you are buying lingerie for; if you are buying it solely for your pleasure, but she doesn't feel good or attractive in it, you have wasted your money, for it is probably going to be worn once, just to please you, and then, it is going to hang or lay around, useless...

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