Friday, June 20, 2008

WHAT MAKES YOUR PARTNER HAPPY???


Keeping romance alive in your relationship involves many different factors, but, in my opinion, the most important thing you can do is to know what makes your partner happy, and carry an attitude of willingness to please...

Yes, being sexy, dressing sexy, and acting sexy are also important, but, if you know your partner well, and are willing to make the effort to please, romance is just a touch away...

And yes, some people are sexy hot in appearance, and that might carry them for a while, but, it will not carry them for the long haul, unless that is all their partner is interested in, in which case, that is not much of a relationship in the first place. For the rest of us, learning, cultivating, trial and error, practice, and attitude are what keep the fires stoked and hot. That does not imply that we cannot use our looks or dress them up to create intrigue. No, it means that basically sexiness, allure, and intrigue come from within, and from understanding that which turns our partner on...

Women have a certain charisma from deep within which when tapped, can make even the most insecure woman a powerful source of captivation. And once tapped, becomes an intrinsic part of ones personality, which will show in all areas of life, thus, a sexy, vibrant person is present at all times...

I know I have said this before, but, confidence is everything. Even the plainest people, with confidence can entice many. Confidence is more than ego, it is assurance of worth, and of self acceptance. Regardless of your shape or size, when you have confidence, you attract attention, as it shows in your entire being, and shines like the sun...

Case in point: you have a gorgeous and beautiful woman, but, she is not 100% secure within; she points out her flaws to her lover all the time. In the beginning, he thinks she just needs reassurance, which he provides; after a while, he begins to notice those flaws more and more, for she insists they are visible, and finally, he believes she has flaws too. Not only that, he begins to question his affections for her, for she is not the strong, comfortable person he had thought and surely, needs. You see what I am trying to say???

Embrace your inner beauty, cultivate your inner sexiness, create a character of some sort which exudes confidence and allure. Develop your sexy personality, without being obvious or overbearing, and, bit by bit, it will be ever present. After you become comfortable with the idea of being a sex goddess or sex god, you can then be secure that you are, indeed, one sexy woman/man, which will sizzle in the mind and fantasies of your partner for a long, long time, even though you are not directly putting forth any effort, for it is now a part of your personality, shining and heating the space which you occupy, at all times...

In conclusion, what will make your partner happy will be seeing you in your state of total sexiness, full of belief in your ability to make them weak with desire, and your willingness to take it up a notch or two, now and again, with lingerie , costumes, role playing, and generalized carefree sexuality and fun...

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