Friday, July 25, 2008

ROMANCE AND VACATIONS...

This vacation was wonderful, I really enjoyed it, partly because of the perfect weather, and partly because it was fun. I over-extended it by a week, and really got lost in the time off, having a tough time reconnecting to reality, but, that is all good, well, for the most part...

Couples on vacation should attempt to spend quality time together doing that which they most want to do. Some might enjoy simply relaxing by the water, some in the mountains, others like to keep a heavy schedule, doing things that they think about all year long. Vacation often leaves us feeling like we need another week just to work our way back into reality, for sure...

I think that all lovers should have at least one full week of romantic times together; go on a cruise, to an island, to an ocean resort, sailing, hiking, or whatever they find romantic together. These times are so very important to a relationship, for in the busy days of reality, so much goes unsaid, undone, or overlooked, which can create distance between two...

If you have children, it is more difficult to have a full week alone, so, you could plan several long weekends if possible; weekends where you travel to some exciting place, even if that is just a few miles away, or thousands of miles away. Each couple has places they love, places they dream of, places which truly ignite the passions, so, it should be as much a part of your lives as anything else...

Late night dinners, formal or not, dancing in a club, or under the stars, concerts, carriage rides, horseback riding, motorcycling to some secret destination, long walks along the beach, in a great park, and many other ideas come to mind. The point is to find ways to keep the love refreshed, heated, and alive, that in all of the busy times, we can refer to those quieter, more intimate, and exciting times...

Both sexes should strive to use these times to rev it up, dressing fine, being sexy, looking good, and using their personalities to flirt, entice, and allure each other. It should always be that love is getting better with time, that romance is more interesting with time, and that with time, the attraction lives on. This requires effort of the two, not just one, and it should come easily, readily, and it should definitely be understood that the results will only make life and love more pleasurable all the way down the line...

This year, make time to take a vacation or two or more with the love of your life. Make time to spend with each other in ways which will reinforce the love you share. Do things which are fun, interesting, different, relaxing, rejuvenating, and with as much spontaneity as you can afford. Be young, carefree, joyous, and excited about the possibilities you might create. Keep dreams alive, flourishing, and as hot as you can. Romance the stone if you have to, the effort will bring smiles to your faces in retrospect and reflection. Make it a vacation to remember, no matter what season your vacations fall in...

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